husband vs bf

everyone owez corrected my mistake whenever i called my husband as my bf... ><
well, it's a lesson i learnt and found out to be true..

i learnt tis lesson from my one-day swimming coach..
she was married for more than 10 years and til now, she still call her husband as "BF".
y? well, it's just because she believes (which i believe too) tat it's no normal to call a person we married to as HUSBAND n WIFE.. but when we actually do tat, our feeling towards each other will fade fast.. as, we will take da other party for granted.. thus, resulting a lot of unneccassaries..

so, by referring to our partner as BF o GF, it actually helps to maintain da relationship as we ever did during our courtship.. resulting, less arguments, more sweets... XD

VS